If you are new to gay relationships, you may have a few pre-conceived ideas about what they are all about.

The important thing to remember is that gay people come in all shapes and sizes and have all kinds of interests, just like everybody else. Likewise, gay relationships are as diverse as those in them.

Do I have to choose between being a 'top' or a 'bottom'?
They don't last very long do they?
Gay guys and lesbians always sleep around don't they?
But I don't like bars... don't I have to go to one to meet a partner?

There are lots of myths about gay relationships. And these myths leave people wondering many questions.
The reality is that gay relationships do not have to carry the expectations that seem to accompany heterosexual relationships.

If you are about to start dating or you have been wanting a gay relationship for some time, you may be experiencing some hesitancy. You might be concerned about monogamy or roles in gay sex. But don't let pre-conceptions have you thinking negatively about gay relationships. Read more about gay dating and relationships here. At gaycounselling.org, we are busting the myths about gay relationships!