How to date gay men is knowledge that can come from personal experience, advice from others or the pages of a self-help book. We've collected the top 10 books for dating gay guys in this list.


Self-esteem might be a factor or it could be self-belief. But if you think something is holding you back, why not take a look at one of these guides to gay men's dating? The list includes books about the basic principles of getting to know other men, psychological barriers to moving forward with dates as well as guides for men coming out and stories to inspire those who are dating.

Our new gay dating book list runs over two pages of books for gay men and includes a short summary of the type of books listed. And for those with more experience, there is even advice here about 'seduction' and ending a relationship with a gay man.

If you are interested in reading titles like 'Finding a Lover for Life',  'The Manly Art of Seduction' and 'Finding True Love in a Man-Eat-Man World', check out our Dating Gay Men Self-Help book list now!